Hi, I’m Debora, a single mother of two living in the wilds of Anza, CA. We’re into gardening, horses, hiking, reading and working toward a more self-sufficient lifestyle. Warning: this blog may contain occasional drama and/or random flights of absurdity.
“A loving heart is the truest wisdom.” ~Charles Dickens


Have a nice day !
Thanks for visiting my blog. Your words made me smile today.
Debora, have read all your blogs, as strange as that sounds. You sound like a wonderful person. Can’t really imagine the profanity coming out of your mouth, perhaps it is a part of who you are, or learned behaviors. I love the idea of star trek and the boundless qualities of space. For us there are only destinations, surrounded by the duties and limitations here on earth. For many of us, we look at space and wonder about the endless possibilities, without boundries or limitations. But you have a great way with words, describing your world. Try using your abilities to create thoughts without limitations. Instead of being a reporter, or documenting your life, create new thought with the expressed intent of creating change. Not just in your life, but other’s. Actually I wouldn’t be surprised, if you had already done this.
John — the profanity is definitely a learned behavior. I never used to use it, but by the end of my marriage I was cussing like a sailor. I’ve been working hard on quitting it, though, and I’m a lot better about it these days.
There’s been so much change in my life this past year that I can’t even begin to imagine what the next year will bring. Can’t wait to find out though.
Have we met?
Keep up the spirit. I wish you the best. Life is a learning experience that we must embrace. It’s the areas that we aren’t good at, that we have to face to make us who we need to be. You are on that road…and very intelligent!
Hi Debora,
I’m Julie, the editor of “Mamapedia Voices”, and we feature guest bloggers on Mamapedia, a site for Moms all across the country. I’ve just found your blog, and would like to invite you write a piece which could be featured on our site.
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Best wishes,
Julie D’Agostino
Editor, Mamapedia Voices